Empty vessels are the loudest- they make noise and no music! Same are those who are pompous and boastful with the sillies of over-confidence.
You feel good about yourself- perfect! You think you are the source of your own happiness- mind blowing? But do you think you are the only source of goodness in this planet earth? That you are also the only source of happiness and right doing? Well, if this is the case, then you are an arrogant person! < ahref=”http://www.bubblespan.com/boost/”>Confidence is a positive approach. However, there is a very thin line between confidence and over confidence. The over-fluctuation of self esteem and opinion is the root cause of altered confidence. With that in mind, we have prepared a list of 7 inseparable mistakes that highly confident people make in their dealing:
1. “I don’t care what you think or mean”:
Generally, such people do not count your presence– simply because they are too obsessed with their own ideas! Though confidence is positive, over-confidence breeds negativity and conceited thoughts.
“I am always right”
The big time ego is always at play! Over-confident people are incorrigibly brash. Their affections are falsified and often miscalculated.
“ I talk more and Listen to Less”
Now this is what I call a communication disaster! A disaster where the message sender is obsessed with sending the message, no matter how it is perceived by the receiver! Over-confidence doesn’t allow you to listen- the hardest truth.
“I am a loner”
Since collective effort is always at stake, over-confident people are inherently loners. “I can do it on my own’, ‘I don’t need anybody’s help’ and ‘you don’t match my expectations’. These are some of the things common with over-confident people.
“I can take your comment TOOO personally”
Just another way of saying ‘I hate you, and I love myself’
“Acceptance is not my cup of Tea Dude”
You know how stupid you are- still you want to give me a piece of advice? You think I will listen to you? Oh you silly chap!!!
“ I don’t seek for your approval”
Why wasting time in seeking for approval when I know I am the only best thing around! *Slow Claps and end of discussion!