What qualifies love? Is it the element of togetherness, a marriage that lasts for a couple of years, endless trust that a person has on the partner or the concept of ‘happily living ever after’? Now tell me- do you think love has a universal definition? That is it an obligation?
Love is neither an obligation nor a universally defined concept with restricted beliefs! Just like a free bird, the feeling of love is liberated. It is liberated because love is a very personal feeling. For instance, your feelings of love could be entirely different from my beliefs and vice versa. The real life situation that most of the couples face in today’s scenarios is hard for sustaining the true essence of togetherness. The relationship that a partner shares with the other partner is bounded with the shades of truth. No matter how much you could blame yourself, if the relationship is sinking, it is because both the partners are underlying the basic truth about their love relationship. Acceptance is the call- accepting your situation and learning some no-nonsense facts about love relationships is all that you need today!
- Understand that perfection is a myth:
No matter how much you are in love, it won’t make you a perfect human being. Human beings are essentially flawed as there is no harm is making mistakes. Accept the fact that perfection is a myth and if you are expecting that from your partner, then it is your mistake.
- Love Demands effort:
True love faces the test of time in the most peaceful manner. It isn’t an easy cakewalk as it demands effort, time and commitment from both the partners. You have to accept the fact that you are going to make some funny mistakes, you will continue to forget the bills, keep those dirty socks away from laundry, and would still fight for those petty issues. It all depends on you that how you are going to take it.
- Love is a give and take business
Rachael was in love with Smith. She thought her love would be enough for both of them. However, as time fly, she realized that unrequited love is not a happy thought- it is painful and disgusting. Alas, love is not a vessel where you could only pour your affections. Love is both- to love and to be loved!
- The happy marriage of thoughts:
Your partner is not a soothsayer- it is difficult to read minds! Hence, be open to communication and express your thoughts clearly. True love relationships are a happy marriage of thoughts where both the people express and understand each other in the most undisputed manner.
- Fighting in love is cool:
If you are willing to spend your time and energy in love through fighting, then it is cool. Anger, just like the feeling of love, is an expression. It reflects your effort and concern of staying in a relationship for a longer duration.
- Comparing your partner will someone else is other way of killing the relationship:
Appreciate uniqueness in behaviors! If you think that you have found a better person than your partner, then feel free to switch. It is better to end a relationship that is based on half hearted attempts- sorry, but don’t fool your partner.
- Love demand changes and not breakups:
If you think that your love relationship is getting boring then probably it’s time to do something exciting. A breakup is not the eventual solution of boredom. Try understanding the simple fact!