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7 Reasons Why Our Generation is scared of getting married

To love is the highest reward… and to stay committed is the biggest fear! Welcome to generation ‘easy-makeup-and-breakup’- where marriage is nothing but the most unwanted call imposed in the minds and thoughts.

Coming from a society of arrange marriages, our generation is a bit scared about from the entire concept of marriage. The finding of a suited match, the family permissions, and most importantly, the complexity of dealing with adulthood is nothing but a nightmare. With time and tide, we have witnessed change in our attitude and beliefs. The high cases of divorce, one-night stands, live-in relationships and single parenthood has affected the modern mindset. We have to accept it- that yes; we are scared of getting married. So here are the 7 most genuine reasons to proof your mental state!

1.‘And they lived Happily-Ever-After’- We have enough of this Drama:

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No more fairytales please- we have had enough of the blunt realities of life. Our generation is more realistic and logical.

2.We want to focus on our careers- much more than our previous generations

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Spending 25 years in education doesn’t mean that on one fine day, you will end up getting married to a complete stranger. Our generation is much more career-oriented- we know where to channelize the energies.

3.We are not ready to compromise- we respect equal ‘respects’

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Compromise cannot be a one-sided affair! Excuse me but we are too obsessed with our respects and space.

4.We want to explore our dreams- we are in the quest of finding ourselves

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It isn’t new, since Gautama Buddha did the same thing with his family life. The quest for self is a call that nobody should disconnect unattended. A wondering mind should not be controlled with the chains of marriage. Let your dreams fly high.

5.Commitment is a nightmare for us

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Now that’s a fear! Yes we are commitment phobic.

6.Perfection and idealism is not our cup of tea

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I am sinfully flawless- are you ready to accept that? The exaggeration of ‘Ideal Bahu’ and ‘selfless family-man’ is scary!

7.We know that companionship is not all about wedding:

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Companionship can come in diverse forms- it could be friends, love, family and even pets. Then why paying so much attention to marriage!

About Prerna Kathait

Blessed with the power to weave words with thoughts, Prerna handles the writing department in her own way! She writes, she talks, and she never fails to inspire- beside, the immense love of gadgets that she shares is profound.

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