“Too strong to handle”- now this is not a tag for all the people out there! To have a ‘get-set-going’ attitude with a constant ‘I-don’t-care’ mannerism and aura is a sign of strong personality traits that itself makes it difficult for universal acceptance. Not everybody in the world is ready to accept the strengths of your personality– bitter but true!
Owing to the ills of herd mentality (that has been captivating our minds and belief for past so many years now); it becomes difficult for people to accept a person with a strong personality.There are different names that the society gives to a strong-headed person and it might be dominating, stubborn, jerk, rude, insensitive, and insane. Nevertheless, this name calling has nothing to do with the actual persistence of a person’s character trait. The fact that we all are born individuals, celebrating our uniqueness and ability to deal with the odds of life is true to acknowledge. You are not here for judgments and justification- nothing can qualify the aptness of your deeds.
Some people might find your company uncomfortable, they might be a bit afraid from you and it may happen all the time! The trouble is neither in you nor in them, as it is just a unique gift of your personality. Stop looking for validations!
Here we have listed 7 signs of influential people with strong personality traits that are not easy accepted in the society:
- Excuse me? You are not the one who gives excuses!
Strength doesn’t come with the kick of excuses! A person with a strong personality is neither worried about the obstacles nor bothers to spare a second thought about people’s opinion. They prefer focusing on self!
- To love is to care- to take a stand when needed- and to make your presence felt:
Though you yourself are not ready to rely on people, but when it comes to you, your own people can easily rely on you! Like a strong wall out there, you stand tall with your people- lending your support and love to them.
- You are not afraid in raising your voice against insensitivity and intolerance:
Lack of influence and knowledge makes a person dominant in nature. However, people who have strong personalities are thoughtful and well-versed with information and knowledge. Now this is the difference between the two character types, having different type of influence in their essential mannerism.
- No small talks- you believe in deep conversations:
Since you have a lot of ideas, you cannot limit your thoughts within a few limited words. People with strong personalities have the quality to influence others with their power to speak, discuss and communicate. They encourage and motivate in the simplest manner.
- They understand communication in silence:
To communicate with others is not all about speaking and expressing. More than anything, communication is an art where a person becomes receptive to listening. For that matter, silence connotes much more than words- so people with strong personalities can easily get the message.
- There fearlessness is not attention-grabbing:
No matter how strong you are (or how strong you pretend to be), fear is a universal emotion. And much more than fear, it is the reaction that determines your personality. Strong personalities don’t react awkwardly. They don’t have an eye for attention-grabbing instinct. Both fear and fearlessness is a subtle emotion for them.
- They create opportunities for themselves:
Strong personalities know how to celebrate the fear and insecurities of life- they create opportunities out of them! They are ready to learn and evolve with time, as they accept change in the most unanimous manner in life.