A broken heart is the most distracted thing in this world- it wanders for love and craves for care! With so much of expectations from one definite soul, you are certainly not going to the right track of ‘self-worth’. You want to wake up in the morning with that warm loving message, and more certainly, your love wishes are bouncing limitless. Give it a wait darling- we have 5 reasons why you should STOP thinking this way right here and now. Know them, learn them and follow them!
- Because your love could be ‘Lust’:
Any form of attraction, be it physical or emotional, could not be regarded as love. As human being, our desires are originated from our needs and most often, we are confused about our wants. I am not convinced with the idea of ‘love at first sight’. Love sometimes is more deep and rooted. It takes time and demands effort.
Because you are following deadlines:
So you are in the rat race to accomplish your life’s deadlines? Study first, earn second, get married at third, have kids at fourth and blah…blah…blah- you are more certainly following deadlines dear! With deadlines in mind, you have a reason to love and love is not driven with the idealism of logic.
There has been a golden rule with love- I believe! And it is quite easy to follow. They say if you cannot keep yourself happy then you cannot become the source of anybody’s happiness. So if you are feeling lonely right now and you think your loneliness can be cured with deliberately falling in love, then you are mistaken.
Because both of you have mastered the art of conversation:
The interactions that you have with that special one are beautiful- they are special and completely out of this world. It is exceptional. It is deep. It is personal and probably, the best feeling of this world. But what if they stop? What if they are NOT driven with the desire to love? Honestly, it could be heartbreaking so even if you have mastered the art of conversation, stop yourself.
5. Because your love is unrequited:
Commitment phobia is cowardice- you knew it. The inability to respond is a weakness- you are still dealing with it. Why? Stop falling for a person who is not ready to respond to your desire of love. Sooner or later, you have to accept the fact that you cannot change the person and you cannot FIX them. It is going to get miserable.
And why you SHOULD not stop yourself!
It is simple. Love is not driven with reasoning… it is not logical. It is less related to the mind’s game and more about the tale of your heart. Even the most intelligent person can fall in love with the stupidest one- now this is the magic of being in love. So just forget about all the reasons!
Fall in love because you CANNOT avoid the thought of that special one. Fall in love because even if try thinking of someone else, you are still uttering his name. Fall in love unapologetically, unregretfully and unanswerably. You simply don’t have to look for a reason- fall for it no